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I hope things are mellowing out for your D, how is she doing?





Well, she is doing better, but yesterday she found ex-BF had hacked into her IM and email and deleted all her contacts. When confronted he claimed his "friend" had done it (not!). She was pretty freaked out because he left his IM contact in a folder labeled "god".

I spoke with his father, and expressed our concern - both ABOUT his son and FOR his son (D tells me now that his psychiatrists think he may be bipolar). BF later sent D an apology, and claimed he dumped her because he was getting manic and pushed her away because he didn't want her to get hurt, etc.

The good thing is, D seems very clear during all this, she is concerned about him of course, but really wants nothing more to do with someone who would dump her like that, then do all this weird stuff after. She's learning some hard lessons very young.
Ellie