Quote: Would like to hear her side of things which I bet would be a catalogue of all the ways in which her H has failed her.
Well, Midip, usually that is what I would assume, that she has a long and similar list - but I guess that's why I posted this story, because I really suspect she doesn't. I suspect she just really has some weird personality disorder, because her behavior has been so odd, and because I know her H to be such a kind, caring guy.
After all, who would host underprivileged kids in their home for five days (some of the very sweetest kids you could imagine, too) and not even bother to meet them - not once!
Now, most of the things our spouses have said to people about us - you know they are just rationalizations for their leaving, right? Yes, we all make errors and have things we need to improve about ourselves and our Rs - but even if you are perfect, the WAS will make up the most absurd reasons for leaving (and I've seen some real doozies on this board!). My favorite is the WAS telling the LBS they are leaving them because they are too controlling - and they are too controlling because they want the WAS to end their affair!
