For all who questioned where H was - he did come home Saturday night. I didn't call him in the middle of the night Friday because I knew he had a long day of work Saturday and needed his sleep - besides, there wasn't anything for him to do right then.
H had a long talk with D on Saturday. D was pretty subdued all weekend. She knows she messed up.
Amazing how her moods swing all over the map. Yesterday I was looking for a DVD we had rented the other day, and trying to figure out where we had put it. D says "I know you brought it in, mom, because I was in a pissy mood then and I remember thinking "oh, watch, I bet mom asks ME to pick it up and carry it in" and you didn't".
Now - the scary thing about this is - she seemed in a perfectly GOOD mood at the time!!!! If that's the way she feels when she looks GOOD - god help us when she looks BAD (which is often!!!!).
