Ellie:
i am so sad about your D problems...!!... hope your h is at home right now, maybe thats is a big help fr you...!... yes, some use to tell us, as mothers, not to make a big problem from a little ones (you know, it is totally normal a girls trying to geo out with her BF) but in your D case, there ir a Depression and other problems previes.. so... it seems you need to worry and maybe work a lot with yur h... i will be here if i can help yu in anything...
andrea