Ellie, i hope you don't mind me finding you to thank you again for the help the other day.. I just read breifly your stich here and find it amazing what you have done. I got the book The Five Laungages of Love and have been trying to see which one my H is, but it seems that he keeps changing. I keep hoping he will be in a "normal" frame of mind so i can kid with him and see if i can get him to answer the questioner. I guess it is really bad when you are unsure what you H really gets the vibs from. After 22yr i thought that i knew him but i guess not if i can't figure that out. Maybe this has been part of the problem?
When he first moved out, he made a comment that he had doughts when he did that. Maybe if i known about the way they reacted to us i could have been able to avoid his moving out. Hine site is always better they say. So i am really trying to read him, but like i said he keeps bouncing around. Any suggestions other that getting him to take the quiz?
I E-mailed him last night as you suggested and just thanked him for the good nights sleep with him next to me. After he read it i got no responce but he did keep calling like he always does. It seems that most of the time any comment about feelings is met with silence after. Once in a great while i can tell when it is alright and tell him that ILY and i will get the same back in a sincere voice. All along we have been ML on and off. Lately i have had to instagate this more but his comment is " I was thinking about that too" so do i continue to or start waiting for him. He was always a take it or leave it about this. Well sorry to hi-jack your stich about me but i was told that you could help me more that some of the other posters as you have been thru what i am going thru and they haven't gotten there yet. Anything else you can suggest would br greatly appreciated. Once again Thanks and Happy Easter, Sonni
