I am going through same thing with my H. He has never admitted the A which is painful for me. But now he seems to be tellign the truth. He is home earlier, he seems to be trying. I also can't put my finger on it but I feel like he is being sincere.
But and here's the BUT, once we have been burned it is hard to go in there, trust and risk that sort of pain again.
I also lost it big time with my H last weekend. I accused him of lying to me and said we need to get a D if he is going to keep doing this.
Then I found out from an independent source that he really was where he said he was that day. I felt really bad about my nagging etc that weekend.
And now H is angry and says he feels boxed in.
Some how if you want the M you have to try to trust again. Otherwise whats the point.
Thanks for your posts it helps to know others are handling similar sitchs succcessfully.
Deb I have been reading your posts and I agree with Mollie, I think you are almost there. Good Luck!
