thanks Sage, I'm not real sure what I can do, I do have to attend the meeting. All I can come up with is to try to put it out of my mind and not worry about what I cant control. I was reading an old thread on here the other day, I think it was called "1 year of dbing" or something like that, I need to find it again, it's really good, but anyway the author said he'd pretty much encouraged the A because that's what needed to happen for him to become the good guy and om to become the bad guy so that the A would fall apart. evidently it worked for him that way... maybe reminding myself that I'm actually doing what I need to to give it a chance to fall apart is good... and, I have no PROOF that they would be together, just a pretty good (bad?) feeling that's a possiblity.
question here...do you think from where you stand the +'s of H's interest in sex and some "reattachment" to the kids, etc, overshadows the negatives of him possibly still seeing her on Saturday mornings? I know that's probably not a fair question even, but I guess I wondered what it looks like to you from your experienced perspective.
