Deb--I usually don't stop by the BB anymore. Anyway, something really struck me...

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I frankly don't know if I can ever trust him again if he continues to refuse to do anything to help me. and I don't know how either of us can live with the lack of trust, it isnt realistic or even fair to expect him to live with a ball and chain, with every move supervised and overseen by me. and yet he refuses (it seems to me) to do the things that would help me regain trust....I don't know if it's out of anger, a desire to punish me still, or if stuff is still going on w/ow, or if he thinks he is doing stuff and I don't "get it". However, he has said he has no intention of doing what I've told him I need done to help me move on.......



I feel like H and I have been in this place for quite some time lately. I don't have time/can't post much on the BB right now...but email me, okay?

siereyna at yahoo dot com

Take care!

[color:"purple"]Nevanna[/color]