I guess the bottom line is that I trusted H so completely, and was so blown away by the A. now this has all been brought up as though it was happening all over again, like sandpaper on a scabbed over wound. and I'm not doing real well with it at the moment.
It did occur to me this morning though that ow used to go to great lengths to keep the office staff from writing any information on the leave boards/calendars when things were "hot" (except for their romantic little get-away to our vacation spot)..........
