Quote: All this was going on around the same time that he was ranting and raving at me about the way I spent "his" money, about the $10 family room lamps from good will, on and on and on he raged at the time.
Deb
I am very glad I read this on your thread, because this is the kind of stuff H was throwing at me around the year before the bomb. I took it all very seriously (personally), as I was the stay at home parent, but I see now that this kind of stuff gets said even when both parents are working. The other thing is that if both parents work, and the wife does the major part of the housework and childcare chores (as is often the case), then she is not attentive enough! I don't think we can win in these situations...
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
