oh, yeah, I was going to mention. Curiosity got the best of me a couple of weeks ago, and I "Googled" ow's ex...i've been curious because H has commented that "he's not stupid, he's had quite a bit of education, has a masters degree" (I didnt mention that I know some folks with those that I think are pretty darn dense)...H has sounded puzzled about him....so anyway, turns out the guy doesnt have a masters, he has doctorate....I don't believe H knows that. This explains ow's D's comments to S however, as she showed him pics of her moms bf's, that "this one couldnt provide" and "he couldnt get enough money so Mom broke up with him", etc and on and on and on. I don't think anyone she's dated/lived with around here has had that level of educational attainment/income (the guys an associate prof. at a university)....so, yeah, the picture does become clearer, and yes $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ are a big motivating factor for her. H has told me her ardor cooled considerably when she figured out we arent as well off as she thought. Isnt that just nifty? what a sleazy deceitful, user she is.
I would just LOVE it if H ever sees it. I know better than to say anything, but I can't help but to hope that someday he will be able to see it.