I know I'm whistling in the dark here, but does this sound like "good stuff" to anyone else?
Deb,Deb,Deb -- I swear, I'm going to force you to start listing these positives yourself!!!
1. h mentions he's having a midlife crisis (good recognition on his part and also disclosure)
2. h shares his concerns about his job and the way he feels about it (good disclosure but also suggests that he's viewing other things as a source of discomfort)
3. h refers to "our family"
4. h asks for pictures for his OFFICE (which, I recall, is close to ow?) -- hmmmm, I **think** this is positive but I can't quite put my finger on why
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.