I was hospital-sitting with my niece beginning Weds. morning. (Seems like eons ago!) I have caught up on some sleep and am trying to catch up on the bb (you) before I run out again. I must admit that I read your posts really quickly but I am thinking that I must be missing something....I am not sure why you are upset. I apologize for not understanding and I will re-read when I have time.
Is it possible (and truly, I am not going to the "old fallback" position here) that hormones could be playing a role in your current mood? I ask because I know that this is always a factor with me. And at times even KNOWING that it is the reason for my behavior can not stop me from spinning.
Give yourself a break, hon. Relax this week and enjoy your life. Don't put too much pressure on yourself (and your H) this week. Expectations can really kill the mood. Just be your kind and loving self and RELAX!
I think that you will know if the time is right to try out the sheer shirt. If you do, wear it for all it is worth and show all the confidence you have. Your confidence will be the thing that really turns him on!