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There are teeny tiny little "things" that pre-bomb I would have never even noticed, like him being on the computer, suggesting I could take a nap this evening, saying he was going to take a walk.





Ah, Deb, the crazy maker is coming out! Honestly, when I read h's email to you I saw these things:

1. he's concerned about how she's feeling so he mentions that she "could" take a nap (he didn't really suggest it!)

2. he tells her what he's going to do (walk)

3. he makes plans with her (movie or ???)

4. signs off but explains why

There was a time when one of my goals was "get thru the next phase of ow insecurity w/o having a meltdown with h"...I KNOW you've done a really great job of late (!!!!!) so keep it up!!!!!!!!

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.