Guess I should update so I don't forget...this morning H was wearing jeans (casual day) and I told him sexy...he gave his standard snicker and reply of "I don't see why that's true now when it never was all those years"...I said "It was, I just didnt tell you"...and of course his question was "why not?" and I said "well, I didnt want you to think I was a nasty woman after your body all the time. You wouldn't have wanted some hot woman panting over you day and night would you? he looked kind of shocked and surprised and said "well.....yes" in an almost teenagery voice. I just laughed, and told him "well, your mom never told me that, she never said put on naughty undies and go after him, she just told me I needed to cook you apple crisp"....now this is a true story of a lecture I got from MIL when we were first married; talking about it got him kinda fired up that she was never right about anything. H mentioned his long-ago xgf again, that she had this funny walk...H was talking about it being a kind of weird, uncoordinated walk. I know the walk....frankly, the woman walks like a penguin. then I had another interesting thought, guess who else walks like a penguin???? yep, Skank. interesting.
well, we smooched a little, H said he had been "horney" in the night, but I was so "out of it" I was snoring, so he didnt pursue anything...I told him not to let that hold him back, and he said "well hold that thought for tonight then".
He also made the comment that losing a few more inches would have me wearing sexy jeans. I guess that's supposed to be a compliment...I'll take it as such, and that he meant it that way, which is a good sign. What, who me? grasping at straws? well, we'll see what tonight brings.