Hi Dawn, I hope you're feeling ok today, and glad to hear things are going to be ok for your health stuff. Those painkillers can be something, huh? I remember being totally incoherent the last time I had them.

I like your crystal ball! dust that thing off more often, will ya???? LOL....seriously though, I never even considered that "skank" (like the name, too!) might be loosing interest. That would explain a lot, and actually now that you mention it, H has told me numerous times that he thought she was, and that that would happen, and that was what would have to happen. I always just put that in the "believe none of what they say" bin and went with the "actions speak louder than words" train of thought.

But, hmmmmmmmmm, THAT would explain a lot, almost everything, in fact, that I've been picking up on the last 6 weeks or so. Plus, I've actually been praying that god would see that ow's needs were met in a way that pleases Him (yes, that pulsing glow you see is my halo -- HA!, not!)...and I do believe that he answers prayers, not always on our timeline or in our view of how it's best, but answers them.

I will invite H to go with me, don't know what he'll do. Boy is that a huge step for me to venture away so far and leave him with free access to ow (oops, I like Skank) better....but, oh well, what he will do he will do. I think I'll throw out the idea of overnight, but very lightly, I'm kinda thinking that's a very long shot....probably he wont' even go with me, but that's ok too, let him stay home and be eaten alive by the guilt monsters....especially if he lets me go on a dangerous mission all by my poor little self so he can have a hot time with the Skank. ah, devious minds at work here. We shall see, I guess.


been around awhile!