Hi Deb-

Had a late day today in Columbus. I spent about 10 hours at the doctor! So late that people where vacuuming when I left! (And no one to give my co-pay to!) LOL Long story short...I will be fine.

Things sound great with you. Keeping an even keel and not mentioning ow really is improving your situation.

You know this is hard without my crystal ball....but could it be possible that ow (aka skank) has lost interest? Perhaps she has her sights on another? This would ease your h's guilt and take his mind off her, wouldn't it? And it might explain his convos about his old girlfriend. Just a thought....

I think that you should ask him to join you on that long drive. Maybe you could make it a 2 day drive and stop over at a nice hotel?? Even better if you can manage to make it all HIS idea! LOL

Pain killers kicking in- got to run! Take care-

Dawn