Hi Randy, Thanks. I swear, I am never really sure of what to do. I do believe he really thought I didnt care about him/want him, so it's important to let him know, BUT i know that you're on target that I can over do it. I guess maybe I need to take that cough medicine...it will back me off in a hurry! LOL...
I am hoping it's a good sign that he actually made a move to have supper w/S....and that he wasnt all "google-eyed" watching ow in church. I might have urped if I had to watch that again! I swear I think she shows up for manipulation value!!!!!
However, I did stay backed off on that, other than asking him if he needed to leave because he said he felt ill, I had no response to it at all...I acted "as if" it was the same as always, which is a 180 for me when my brain is screaming...why is she here? did you call her this morning? what is the sitch between you? when are you going to end this for good? Why didnt you end it long ago? why cant you see what a lying manipulative b---h she is, when are the going to fire her...and on and on and on.... I didnt say a word, didnt even act weird, if I do say so myself.
