Hey Deb,

After months of being AWOL from the boards I just had to peek in and see what was up and yours was the first thread that I read.

I have been db-ing on my own but things are not looking so hopeful, and it seems like a divorce is probably imminent. It has been two years now with OW and H, and things have deteriorated to the point where he is supporting her financially but not us. What a mess.

I have been getting a life though - doing some freelance writing now and substitute teaching.

One day in the near future I will either post to my old thread or start a new one.

I have thought of you guys often, but I just didn't have the emotional energy to invest here if that makes any sense.

love ya,
Pam