Don't know if you will be on-line today or not but I thought I would add my GET WELL wishes to the list!
If the doctor told you to get rest (off work) for a week then that is exactly what you need to do! No "buts" about it!
I know exactly how bad it feels to be so physically down and not have an attentive husband at your every beck and call. But that's his deal and about all you can do is pity him for missing out on the chance to show his love...because he wants to, he's just too stubborn to do it.
Get in bed with a good book, doze off when you feel like it and take this opportunity to really pamper yourself! You deserve it.