How's that flu? I seem to be coming out of it....it's been slow going. Still coughing at night, etc.
Seems to me that ow is trying her best to get your goat. You are better than this! Do not take the bait. Anyone can go to the store and buy a stuffed animal and stick it on their dashboard. Jeesh! Laugh it off and see it for what it is....a desperate (and transparent) attempt to up-set you (or your h). She's a joke.
You know, if things were going soooo great between your h and her she would not be trying to hard to make it appear as if they were. Get it?
I totally agree with dfb on the forgiveness issue. He is being a baby and lashing out at you (blaming you) because he can not face the fact that he made this huge mistake all on his own. It's got to be humbling to know that the one thing that he did without you by his side, he completely screwed up! Hence, the anger at YOU.
I have found that it is difficult to DB when you are feeling ill. The illness makes you feel vulnerable in all aspects of your life. You've done a great job getting through this!
And, oh man, can I sympathize with you about trying to get things done around the house. I get so sick and tired of asking my husband to do the simplest things! So irritating. I could start my own thread just based on the argument we had on Sunday about checking the oil in my car....Big sigh....I guess I have to learn to be my own mechanic, plumber, electrician. But, hey, he has been using his time wisely getting that PhD in remote control usage!
