Back yourself out of the cheeseless tunnel, ok? You have been doing GREAT focusing your energies on things you can control...STOP wandering around parking lots looking at Beanie babies and the like. I know, I know, easier said than done to keep yourself out of a rut but you HAVE been doing it and you ARE doing great.
So, h is feeling a little prickly right now...ok, work with it...up the love languages work you are doing...be even more open, loving, gracious, warm...do more for him! Sounds like he's not reacting well to the comments about him wanting too much (the sandwich) so stop making them, right???
As for whether or not he'll forgive you...well, sure, I'd bet. Do you think he feels forgiven for his foibles? Sometimes people withhold forgiveness if they themselves don't feel forgiven. Another thing...do you think he feels as though you are sorry? Can be another block, too.
Get back to what you've been doing so well, Deb...it's been paying big dividends!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
I know, I know, easier said than done to keep yourself out of a rut but you HAVE been doing it and you ARE doing great.
