Quote: I think Jenny's point is that increased affection doesn't necessarily "soften" up a guy towards lovemaking in the same way that it might for an LDW.
I don't think that my showing my H the type of affection he needs is necessarily going to warm him up towards lovemaking directly...BUT...I do see how meeting this need can lead to the feeling of being cared for & loved...and that in turn can alter how he feels about ML. I'm already seeing this in him.
But I emphasize again...that "affection" can vary from person to person.
