Sorry for the semi-hijack GEL. I admire your efforts tremendously. I was just kind of bemused by this thread because unless I'm remembering wrong, MrsNOP was married when she and NOP got together. Of course, NOP frequently reminds me of that old saying "reformed rakes make the best husbands" .

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver