I figured you didn't intend to sound that way. And I understand your passion on the subject...I'm pretty passionate about it myself. That is why when I began to understand the feeling some people must feel who claim to love their spouse, but cheat anyway...it scared the hell out of me!
For me that topic has ALWAYS been black and white...I didn't like the fact that I was beginning to have an understanding of how someone might justify it, but to be honest my mind was beginning to rationalize the .... "well who could blame me!" line of thinking. Which believe me, is not my normal persona!
So...you are absolutely dead-on when you say people who cheat are not their normal selves!!!
