Honeypot & NOPkins,

You know...I would easily have told someone else that naturally affection leads to more....and I honestly thought I was pulling my weight in that....until I really stopped to realize the following: I was choosing what type of physical affection to give him, I wasn't actually giving him the affection he needed.

I thought I was doing pretty well and meeting him more than halfway, I think we all fall into this, but I wasn't. I was still falling into the trap of doing what "I" would perceive as affectionate physcial touch, which is not what he perceives affectionate physical touch to be.

NOP's you're absolutely correct....I truly do have a manly husband, but he and I are flip-flopped in several areas, this is definitely one of them. I can only sit back and imagine the frustration my H must feel when he sees me sitting there snuggling our S. On one hand he probably really enjoys the picture of his W & S sitting lovingly together; on the other hand he's probably thinking "why won't she do that with me?!"

So...Honeypot (I do already kind of have my own list going, and no I won't get sick of you )...this is going to the TOP of it. I know I can do this, it's just like you...I need to be aware to do it MORE.

So...that's the homework I've given myself. Eventually I won't have to think about it, and it will become habit for me.

GEL

Well behaved women rarely ever make history!