Generally, it is the female that needs non-sexual affection before sex, and the male sees affection as a prelude to sex, but those roles are sometimes seen reversed (as in your case), or in mixed proportions. Regardless, it is a good general rule.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
