Lassie, Are you a patient person in other areas of your life?
I suffer from a lack of patience in all areas, not just intimacy. Well I don't know if I suffer..if I do, I guess I bring it on myself, lol.
Also, I have a tendency to get crabby without sex and that makes it harder to drum up patience. It is not the variety of crabbiness that occurs because I'm mad at H, or anything like that, but rather the kind that happens, say, if you didn't sleep well or haven't eaten all day. Just that irritability that flares up because your body is screaming out for something it needs and you are ignoring it. I find myself irritable and wondering why I just snapped at whomever and then I think, ohhhhhhh right...and try to get a grip.
I'm sure you all can tell from the "tone" of my posts on the bb whether I've been residing in Camp Lackanookie or Camp Makalovie. I usually realize it belatedly.
I am a cheerful person by nature, but my patience drops drastically without sex.
