Well...my H went to see our new counselor for the first time yesterday. Low and behold he told me he really likes her, likes her much better than he liked his other therapist. I didn't ask, he volunteered this information.
He found out they have some things in common (they're both Methodist) which I believe he finds comforting. He told me that there were several things that his other therapist (who was male) did that he just didn't quite see eye to eye with, although he had never told me that before. I guess his last therapist was more concerned on doing bio-feedback exeriements with him than actually talking.
Anyway, I got a very good vibe from my H yesterday when he called to tell me this info. He sounded very optimistic, it made for a very good day for me :-)
Today I meet with her again one-on-one, after that we will meet with her together, which I'm really looking forward to. I know it's not going to be easy for either of us, but I just know our marriage is going to be so much better for this in many ways....and I truly do believe our SL will improve as a result, no it may not be what some HD folks would consider good/great...but you know what? I'm going to be happy with it!! Why? Because I know my H and I are going to be closer as a result of all of this.
