Warning. Smoke screen ahead! -------- he just tells me you know what we found out I am not good giving itamacy.... -------
Grouphome talk. I did (abc..xzy) because my meds did not kick in yet.
Real meaning is, I am entitled to do things my way, I don't want to be a responsible person, or I am to lazy to try to do the right thing.
There is a little deliquent child in all of us. Most of us can see the rewards for honorable adult interactions and choose to go that route.
Some people are motivated by good things, some people are motivated just to avoid the pain, and there are people motivated by the mix of reward or pain. Where are you? Where is your Spouse?