I'm so nervous about our talk tomorrow about living together. I'm pretty sure I know what I need to do for me, but I'm worried about negotiable and nonnegotiable issues. We are both control freaks, he in an outward, assertive way and me in a passive, manipulative way. I've got to be able to do this without reverting to the manipulating and lying to get control. I have been doing really well at it lately, but I'm so scared I will fall back into it. Any words of encouragement or advice?
