hope-you seem to have a great attitude. it is really hard when you have kids. thats were I get confused--is he being nice for d sake or do I still have a chance. How long have you been d?? is your exw seeing someone?? I don't believe in divorce either and I want to fight for this ex marriage, it ain't over until someone says I DO!!! but I do need to work on myself. I feel that if I try to go on with my life he'll think yeah, shes doing her own thing now, not thinking that I still love him.