Thanks for the new forum!!!I am in surviving the big d, right now, but I believe posting here might help me as well. How many people are officially d and still want to make their marriage work?? Should be still be trying to make it work, after the big d???? The only thing I really know right now is and this goes for all of us: you have to work on yourself. If you are not happy with yourself, you will not be happy with anyone else.
