It is kind of a strange experience to be told that you are "right" but that esentially it is in your spouse's corner. My crazy C said the same thing about H in terms of "issues with women." She offered me no suggestions for myself other than the validation that H would need to come to terms with some things for us to move forward. Ooh boy. Now we aren't seeing her nor anyone else and the M lurches along in it's "pretty candy coating on a stale Easter egg." It sure is stale for me anyway.
I am glad to hear you in a positive mindset. I'm glad you have some support. Keep at it. I hope your W can start to hear the C - isn't it funny how things sound different coming from an authority figure rather than our spouse?