Hairdog. I am re-reading "Passionate Marriage" by David Schnarch, @1997. Am I reading about you and Mrs DH starting on page 298, and especially on page 303 to 308? Talk about parallel universes!
Have you read the book and especially these pages? It's about a two-choice dilemma Audrey and Peter are confronting. Is your real name Peter or Harry? I don't remember if you commented on this before.
