I agree that it is possible that her intentions were good, but the road to hell is paved with good intentions. A setup, is still a deception, regardless of the intention. I don't see deception and lying as any different.
That is my view, I am not bustin' your chops :-)
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.