Just another angle for you to consider.... I had huge trust issues with my wasband, and for valid reasons. But when I "set him up" by asking something I pretty much knew the answer to.... I was really hoping to catch him telling the truth. For me, I felt I "needed" to know if he was lying, so I could protect myself... but I desperately hoped he'd tell me the truth, because if I set him up and he did tell the truth, it would let me know it was safe to trust again.
So yeah, Ms HD is setting HD up... but it might not be all with bad intentions. The only way to start trusting again when you've been decieved, is to have repeated examples where that person does NOT take the opportunityt to lie.
