HD, you need to call her on it. you need to do it while it is a fresh issue.
She won't be happy, but hey, she already isn't.
I also find the timing of the whole deal interesting.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.