NOP: I actually asked her about "setting me up" regarding the pill bottles, and she said that when she opened the cabinet and saw the bottles, she was "confused" but denied a trap. I know, just because she said she didn't set me up doesn't make it true.
As far as ME trusting HER, remember, I don't necessarily need that "SAFE PLACE" as much as she does in order to have physical and emotional intimacy. I certainly lost a lot of trust in her several months ago when we had a fight about me sleeping in HER bed, and she said she was going to call the police and say I was abusing her...she even went so far as to dial the phone and make it look like it was 911 (although she hadn't really called 911). Now, I'm supposed to just forget all about that and move forward.
But I'm the guy that would begin to rebuild my trust in her if only she would start showing me physical intimacy.
