Hey I know what you're talking about. There are times I find myself doing that (occassionally) and I think it's also to not disappoint my H...or probably to be more honest to keep me from looking like an irresponsible idiot.
I'm finding that for myself I have to force myself to just own up to it and say..."oh crap! I forgot!, you always take care of that and it just slipped my mind." In our case it's feeding grain to our horses when he's away....no, I don't always forget to feed them LOL. They certainly aren't starving, they have nearly 30 acres of really good grazing, it's just the grain that we like to feed them daily that I sometimes forget about when he's not around. But when I forget and he asks me about it, it always makes me feel like that little girl who forgot to do her chores and is now going to be scolded by daddy.
All I can say here is...if she has trust issues Hairdoggie, you're going to have to force yourself to own up and be honest with her...otherwise you run the risk of her running with that little lie and using that as an excuse not to trust you.
