HP-- Coming from the current perspective, it's hard to say whether or not I ever lost desire for my wife. In my current agitated state, I would say NEVER!
But, there were always small gestures. I'd pat her on the butt. I'd let her catch me sneaking peaks while she got ready in the morning (one of my favorite things because she was so unguarded). I'd hold her longer than necessary when we hugged. There are probably more...sometimes I didn't even realize what they meant but if they were well received, then I would start getting more in the mood.
As for being an acceptable quantity, it seemed that way to me...but, based on the current state of my M, it obviously wasn't enough.
As for now, I am blatant about wanting her. I tell her out-right that I'm interested. I am much more physical in my pursuit. I press against her more when I hug her, etc.
Remember though, she doesn't want anything to do with me in that way right now!
