I second that. I am in such a negative space about our sexual R right now that I am emotionally immobile. However, reading this thread really helps me understand how my H's choices really aren't necessarily because he "doesn't want me."
The thing is that I need to get him to understand that I need to SEE that he does want me. Just saying it when I bring it up, saying it to the C, and acquiescing when I initiate DOESN'T show diddly. My question is - Does he think it does?
I'll throw that one out there to you guys - all that time that you chose other things over ML to your wife and she complained periodically about it - did you believe that you were doing things to communicate desire to her or did you know that you weren't? Not to go over old territory but I am just wondering.
Something more positive - the weekend is coming. Any postitive stuff you can do to speak your W's LL this weekend?
