Glad to be of assistance Jules (hope you don't mind being called that!)

MrFixIt and I are planning a crusade to teach men about all of this before they get to where we are!! There is absolutely no reason why guys like us should ignore our Ws. All of this is SO unnecessary and with a little knowledge and a lot of work, guys could preempt a lot of WAW and D. It's much easier to keep and cherish what you have than to try and win it back!!

You ladies on here are absolute jewels! You have been down the hard road and have felt the sadness of not feeling desired and/or wanted. Yet, you looked for answers...you guys have provided so much insight for me!! Helped steer me from stupid thoughts...or in some cases, THWACKED the stupid thinking from my head! I'm hoping that in time, my wife will be like you guys...on the road to a HEALTHY M with her H--ME!!

K