Keb you said......Just wanted to strengthen the whole novelty thing. Guys...and many girls for that matter...what what they can't/don't have. Once you get it...novelty gone. I think it goes back to our primal needs/urges...men were hunters and conquerers. They were always looking for that next wooly-mammoth to eat or tribe to conquer. So, innately, we have are always seeking the "new." Just my two cents...and just thinking out loud.
Okay a question. What can a wife do to try and make her man feel like he has to conquer her. I am thinking and it was interesting that the one husband replied to turn him down every so often. But my husband never really initiates sex. Only when I am at the point of sheer frustration and am so angry then he will. At that point I usually take it because it has been weeks and am so horny. So during those times should I turn him down anyway? See and I have tried this approach before where I wouldn't nag or get angry about sex at all. I didn't even mention it. However I tried to give subtle signs that I was available. I would give him a kiss or be loving towards him. I dressed really nice to try and get him interested. During that time we went two months with no sex. He didn't even talk about it or try to initiate at all.
