cally: Reason 3....he has this wife that would love to fulfill his fantasies. Who is a healthy sexual woman. Cares about his needs and is kinky and loves everything about sex. Guys would love to have a wife like this. How is it that life is so unfair, mismatching people in this way, and the reverse?
Seriously, though, and I haven't found your thread explaining how you got to where you are, you must have thought you and your H were compatible when you got M. What happened to change that? Could there be something else involved besides HD vs LD?