Okay Fixit! Every time you post...our situations become more and more Twilight Zone!! Separated at birth is the only logical explanation!? Were you born with teeth, too? I had two teeth!! I used to say it was because I was born ready to take a bite out of the world. Now, I know it's just because I was destined to be a FREAK! Okay, kidding on that last part...I'm not that much of a freak.
Anyway, read all the post from the ladies here! They provide GREAT insight into the wants, needs and best-of-all, the NO-NO's when it comes to your wife. But, also be prepared for honesty and some not-so-easy questions.
I've been doing more of the 180 type things that seem like pursuit. Talking about the "NEED" for my wife, etc. It isn't getting me what I want but, she has started to appear more receptive to my touches and stuff. I think it was HoneyPot who made it clear that Michele's process is about looking for solutions and acting on the one's that work. That is more important the worrying about the pursuit aspect of things!!
Okay...I've said enough for now. I agree 100% with your conservative ideas above! But, of course, I've always been a conservative!! Okay...so maybe we weren't separated at birth!!