Sorry for what you are going through with the gay thing. My H has a best friend who is gay, has been accused of being gay by a former gf etc... The bottom line is that men who are not agressive are seen as potentially gay.
Anyway, hang in there. Keep letting your W know how you feel about HER. We HDW's are suckers for juicy info e.g. W I had a dream about you the other night and.... or W remember when we went on that trip to FL and f*cked on the balcony? etc...
