I just wanted to add a warning. Do not say anything to your wife that would make her think you were purposefully withholding sex from her because you were angry or resentful. Some HDFolk like me can not deal with this concept at all. If I start thinking that my H was or is withholding sex, it makes me want to leave him pronto because, in my mind, this is totally unacceptable behavior along the lines of physical abuse. I can not tolerate the thought of being in a relationship where the price I might pay for not being a perfect wife is not getting laid. Does this make sense?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
