SM wrote ----------- If you're gay, then your lack of desire for her makes sense. If you're gay and you don't know it, your protestations are a symptom of denial. If you're gay, it's not her fault. If you're gay, she is under no obligation to stay with you, or examine her own role in the marriage's problems. -------------
SM that helped me too.
When I first saw 2 guys kissing I almost threw up and W was with me so she should have known how I felt about her accusing me of being gay. Gay or straight is not the issue. Seems being right or letting out the pain is more important than fixing the problems.
