Quote: She's taken off her ring and has started looking for that new STUD!
You are almost certainly underestimating your W's character if you think she is out looking for a "stud". You would be lucky if this is what she is doing because she will almost certainly be disappointed with just being serviced by a "stud". What she is probably looking for is a man to "husband" her in every sense of the word. You probably still have a chance to get her back until she finds a man who actually falls in love with her and wants to have sex with her. This is what happened to a friend of mine who was the HDW. Once she found a HD man who loved her, her only regrets about the divorce had to do with the kids. However, I wouldn't necessarily advise playing the kid card. My H tried to do this just a bit when I first took my stand on the issue and this just made me furious along the lines of "Don't you dare accuse me of caring more about sex than the kids! The kids are one of the main reasons I've put up with this cr*ppy situation for the last 17 years.".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
